Today’s kids use the internet for more than just a resource they use it to socialize. As summer approaches children are likely to spend equal parts outside playing and inside online, which is why it is important to know about cyber bullying.

What is cyber bullying?

Cyber bullying is an electronic form of bullying that often takes place through:

• Instant messages
• Chat rooms
• A website or gaming site
• Through digital messages or images sent to a cell phone

Signs your child has become a victim of cyber bullying:

• Appears anxious about going to school
• Unexpectedly stops using the computer, their cell phone, etc.
• They become withdrawn from friends and school activities
• They appear uneasy when they get an instant or text message

What to do if your child is targeted

1. Don’t overreact - Evaluate the situation and support your child without immediately calling the school or the bullies’ parents. Be sure to ask questions and if you feel like your child is in physical danger take action. If a threat has been made contact your local authorities immediately.

2. Save every message – If things escalade it is very important you have thorough records of the harassment that you can give to the police. Be sure to save every message, text, and bookmark every website the bully posted on.

3. Don’t participate – Never get more involved in cyber bullying than absolutely necessary. Odds are if you or your child responds to a comment it will only make matters worse.

4. Know school policies – Many schools have policies about cyber bullying; don’t hesitate to get the school involved or have a guidance counselor keep an eye out for in-school bullying.

Resources

For more information about cyber bullying feel free to visit the following websites:

• www.wiredsafety.org

• www.stopcyberbullying.org

• www.cyberbullying.us

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